Relationships

Have You Encountered the Softboy?

He has some art to show you

How To Keep Loving Someone

You have to love someone in the cracks between the big moments. You have to grab their hand when you’re sitting…

Mastering the First Date

There’s no shortage of people ready to dispense dating advice. Most of them talk about how great they are at…

The bigger picture of polyamory

I have been polyamorous for most of my adult life. It’s something I grew into gradually, through a lot of questioning and curiosity and discussion, and it’s something that feels like a significant part of me.

A Woman’s Advantage

The secret to success for women on OkCupid? Sending the first message.

A man’s guide to getting a girl to like you

Your welcome,
-a 27 year old girl who’s gone on 45+ dates in 3 years

Why I don’t identify as “poly”

Around two or so years ago, I identified as “polyamorous”. In 2012, I stopped calling myself “poly” for a variety of reasons, and instead chose to call myself “non-monogamous”. I want to share the reasons I stopped associating with the “poly” community in part as a way to…