Lists of My Blogs & Poetry

Free spirit with a backpack wandering the world in search of answers. — “She was born to be free, let her run wild in her own way and you will never lose her.” — Nikki Rowe 43 juicy facts about me I have traveled to nearly 30 countries (mostly solo) Croatia is my favorite country (so far); I was there during the World Cup Final in 2018 I…

Don’t ignore the signs… — Catfished — lure (someone) into a relationship by means of a fictional online persona. “he was being catfished by a cruel prankster.” (from Google) One day I was scrolling through Plenty Of Fish (LOL — my situation suddenly makes more sense) and connected with a guy (phase one). We will…

The Universe works in mysterious ways — I have limited service in this part of India, so it is hard to keep up with comments, views, etc. On 11/22/22, I was sitting with several people for dinner, and suddenly my phone began to ping repeatedly. I grabbed my phone to see what was happening and realized one…

Which kind of lover are you? — The Greedy Lover We all know them — the men that want all the pleasure for themselves and could care less if their partner gets off. These men remind me of the guy that grabs 4 pizza slices at the free lunch event. He doesn’t mind if others don’t eat as long as…

Be careful of the wolves in sheep’s clothing — Discernment — the ability to judge well (from Google). My loves, it is vital that we use discernment and follow our intuition. A couple of months ago, I shared a brief story about a long-time friend and the end of our friendship. It was sudden and shocking how it fell…

The death of a cockroach, and the heartbreak I felt — I had just awakened from a long nap this evening and decided to head out for a late-night bite to eat at a local spot. When I opened the door, I realized I forgot something. During the ten seconds, a cockroach entered my room. Because of my eyesight, I generally…

A few of my favorite pictures of cows in India — In India, there are lots of cows. These precious animals roam the streets freely in search of food. Many times, they walk right into the restaurants. It took some time to get used to mingling with the cows, but now it does not phase me.

Advice to first time speed daters — Introduction One day I decided to ditch dating apps and try speed dating. I thought it would be fun to meet guys face to face instead of robotically swiping on Tinder. I wanted to try speed dating even though it might be an awkward experience. After trying it the first time…

Short story about my awkward first kiss — It was a brisk, cold Saturday in December. I was a 19-year-old college Freshman. Since it was the weekend, my friends and I did what we did every weekend — party. After we pre-gamed at our tiny apartment, we headed to the club. …